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Separation Spells

Separation spells are the strongest tool in my practice and the one I approach with most care. Every service here requires a case review before purchase, because this work has to be aimed correctly to do anything at all.

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This is the strongest work in my practice and the part I approach with most care.
Every service here requires a case review before purchase. Not as a sales barrier - because this kind of work has to be aimed correctly to do anything at all, and because some of what people ask for here I won't do.
These services are for situations lighter work hasn't resolved: a third party who won't step back, a connection that keeps reasserting itself after you've ended it, someone whose influence on your life you can't shake by ordinary means, or an attachment that outlived the relationship by years.
What I decline: anything aimed at harming someone. Anything intended to break up a relationship that isn't yours and isn't hurting you. Cases where what's being described sounds like a wish for revenge rather than for release. I turn down roughly a third of the requests in this category and I'd rather that number stayed high.
Case review required. Submit a free case analysis before ordering. I'll review your situation within 24 hours and tell you whether I'll take it - and if not, why.

When a separation spell is the right answer, and when it is not

This is the category I decline most often, and it is worth understanding why before you order. Separation work addresses a tie: an attachment that should have ended and did not, an influence operating on a relationship, a connection that keeps reasserting itself against both people's decisions. That is a real thing and it responds to work.

What it is not is work aimed at a named person to force them out of a relationship. Beyond my own position on that, it does not hold - and the version of a situation you would get is not the one you were imagining when you asked.

The distinction people find hardest is between releasing and punishing. Both feel identical from inside a bad month. The test I use is simple: if the work succeeded and the other person was completely unaffected and simply no longer in your life, would that be enough? When the answer is yes, this is your category. When the answer is no, I am not the right person to help.

The test: if the work succeeded and the other person was simply no longer in your life, unharmed, would that be enough?

What happens after separation work is done

Nothing is sent to anyone. Nobody is contacted, nothing is published, and the other person is not told. This is the most common question I get in this category and the answer never changes.

The working runs three weeks and starts after the case review. What people describe afterwards is usually an absence rather than an event: the impulse to check a profile that simply is not there one evening, a conversation that would once have been relayed to a third party and was not, a name that stops coming up.

It is also normal to feel worse for a week or two before that. A tie that has been carrying weight leaves a gap when it stops, and the gap is uncomfortable even when it is the outcome you wanted. That is in the report too, because being warned about it is the difference between recognising it and assuming the work failed.

Feeling worse for a week or two is normal. A tie that carried weight leaves a gap when it stops.

Questions people ask about separation spells

Is separation work the same as breaking up a couple?

No, and this is the distinction that decides whether I take the case. Work aimed at a named person to force them out of a relationship is not something I do. What I work on is the tie itself - an attachment that should have ended and did not, an influence operating on a relationship, a connection that keeps reasserting itself against both people's decisions.

Why does every service here need a case review first?

Because this is the category where the wrong intention does the most damage, and it is the one people reach for when they are angriest. I turn down roughly a third of these requests: where it reads as revenge, where children would be used as leverage, or where the aim is to punish rather than to release. That conversation costs nothing and saves you from paying for a refusal.

Will they know something was done?

No. Nothing is sent to anyone, nothing is published, and no one is contacted. The work is done at my end and the report comes to you. This is one of the more common worries people write to me about and the answer is the same every time.

What if I change my mind halfway through?

Tell me. If the working has not started, that is straightforward. If it has, I will explain what can and cannot be stopped, honestly. Ambivalence in this category is normal and I would rather hear about it than deliver a report to someone who stopped wanting it in week two.

Still not sure which of these fits?

Describe what is happening and I will tell you which service fits - or tell you that none of them do. I turn cases down regularly, and I would rather do that than take your money for the wrong work.

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