I used to offer this service. I don’t any more, and since people arrive on this site looking for it, I’d rather explain than quietly remove the page.
What people are actually asking for
Nobody orders an obsession spell out of curiosity. The people who ask for it are, almost without exception, in one specific state: they’ve been left, or they’re on the edge of it, and they’ve reached the point where they’d accept any version of that person coming back. Not a good version. Any version.
The request is usually phrased as wanting someone to be unable to stop thinking about them. What’s underneath it is more like: I cannot bear this, and I want it to stop.
That’s not a criticism. It’s one of the most painful states a person can be in, and I’ve been sent hundreds of these messages.
What the sellers promise
You’ll find plenty of people offering it. The copy is fairly consistent: they will make a specific person consumed by you, unable to eat or sleep or think of anyone else, until they return.
It’s compelling copy precisely because it describes what the buyer is currently experiencing. You want them to feel what you’re feeling.
What this kind of work can and can’t do
Here’s where I have to be straight, including about the limits of my own field.
Ritual work operates on energy, intention and timing. It can clear what’s obstructing a situation, ease what’s stuck, and strengthen a connection that genuinely exists. Where there’s a real bond that’s been blocked by hurt, distance or bad timing, that’s workable, and I do that work.
What it cannot do is manufacture feeling where there is none, and it cannot override another person’s fundamental will. Anyone claiming otherwise is describing something that doesn’t exist in order to sell it to someone who can’t afford to be sceptical.
So the honest position on obsession spells is this: to the extent that a connection is real, ordinary reunion work addresses it. To the extent that it isn’t, no amount of intensity in the ritual creates one. The category promises the part that isn’t possible.
I do not work against someone who has clearly and repeatedly said no. Not because it fails, but because I will not.
The three reasons I stopped
It sells the impossible part. Everything the service claims that reunion work doesn’t claim, is the part that can’t be delivered. That makes it a product defined by its false promise.
It’s ordered at the worst possible moment. People buying this are usually three weeks into a breakup, sleeping badly, checking a profile forty times a day. Selling them a ritual designed around intensity of pursuit - when the thing they need most is for the intensity to come down - makes their week worse, whatever happens with the other person.
Consent. I do work involving other people; that’s most of what I do. Clearing an obstruction between two people who had something real is different from attempting to install a compulsion in someone who has walked away. I’m comfortable with the first. I’m not comfortable with the second, and I got tired of pretending the line was blurry.
There’s a fourth reason, less noble: these were my worst clients. Not bad people - people in a state where nothing I could do would be enough, who came back angrier each time.
The uncomfortable mirror
The people ordering an obsession spell are describing an obsession. They’re just locating it in the wrong person.
If you can’t eat, can’t sleep, can’t stop checking, and your whole day is organised around one absence - that’s the situation. And it’s the one that can actually be worked on, because it’s yours.
I don’t say that to be clever. I say it because the request comes from real suffering, and the suffering is addressable even when the request isn’t.
What you want is not for them to love you. It is for the not-knowing to stop. Those are different problems.
What I’d offer instead
If the connection was real - a genuine relationship that ended badly, through miscommunication or timing or a third party - reunion work is the honest version of what you’re looking for, and I do it.
If you’re not sure whether it was real - a reading will tell you more than a ritual, and costs less.
If what you actually can’t bear is the not-being-able-to-stop - cord cutting addresses that directly. It’s aimed at releasing the attachment rather than reinforcing it, which sounds like the opposite of what you want. Many people find it’s what they needed.
If you’re in a very bad way right now - please talk to someone. Not as a brush-off. Sustained rumination after a loss is a known and horrible process, and there are people better equipped for it than I am.
If you’re going to order one anyway
You’ll find someone who sells it; that’s your decision to make and I’m not going to lecture you about it.
Two things worth carrying with you. Nobody honest will guarantee it, so treat a guarantee as information about the seller. And if the price starts moving after you’ve paid - the blockage is stronger than expected, the spirits require more - stop paying immediately. That’s not a ritual. That’s the oldest structure in this trade.
If you’d like an honest read on your situation, including whether there’s anything real left to work with, submit a free case analysis. I’ll tell you what I see, even when it isn’t what you were hoping for.