A Different Kind of Client
Most of what I do is repair. This isn’t.
This is for two people who are together, who work, and who want the connection made durable - often at a threshold: before a wedding, before moving in, before a child, or after coming through something difficult and wanting to make sure it holds.
You don’t need a problem to justify it. Wanting to protect something good is reason enough, and it’s a great deal easier than repairing it later.
What Binding Actually Means
The word frightens people, and the fear is usually based on a misunderstanding.
Binding does not trap anyone. It doesn’t remove anyone’s choice and it can’t hold someone who wants to leave - nothing can, and anyone who says otherwise is selling the impossible.
[E] What it does is deepen and anchor a connection that both people have already chosen. It makes the bond more resistant to distance, to routine, to the ordinary erosion of years, and to outside influence. It strengthens what’s there. It cannot manufacture what isn’t.
Which is why I ask a question that most practitioners don’t: is the other person committed to this relationship? Not whether they’d consent to the ritual - whether the relationship is genuinely mutual. If the honest answer is no, this is the wrong work, and the assessment will show it whatever you write in the form.
The Four Weeks
Week 1 - assessment. [E] Both partners and the bond. Where it’s strong, where it’s thin, and what threatens it. In writing.
Weeks 2-3 - the binding. [E] Multiple sessions, timed to the lunar cycle, working on both sides of the connection rather than one. Deeper than a single casting because anchoring is cumulative - this is one of the cases where duration genuinely matters rather than being a way to justify a price.
Week 4 - protection. [E] The bond shielded against outside influence: a former partner who hasn’t let go, a family member working against the relationship, or the general erosion that comes with years.
What’s Included
Written report at assessment and at completion. 60 days of support. And annual renewal at $197 - because this is maintenance work, and I’d rather tell you that than pretend one working lasts forever.
Cases I Decline
Where the relationship isn’t mutual. Binding a connection that one person has already left isn’t binding, and I won’t sell it as such.
Where what’s being described is control. There’s a difference between anchoring a shared commitment and wanting someone unable to leave. It’s usually visible in how the situation gets described, and I decline those.
How to Request It
Submit a case analysis with both names and dates of birth and a description of the relationship. I’ll tell you within 24 hours whether the bond reads as mutual and whether this work makes sense for you.